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finding my new man
Hey, okay so i've been in a few relationships in my life and they were not bad relationships but not great. I have also been single the past few months, and don't get me wrong I love being single but I'm kind of missing having a guy there for me and care for me. Is that wrong? I know I shouldn't go looking for a guy and use him just for that reason. I am just saying I miss having a guy around me to care for me (not just best friends).
I guess what I'm asking is how do I go about finding a guy in my life who will care for me? I'm not really looking for anything serious, but just kind of a love spark i guess haha. I am not a player or anything, so don't think i'm using guys for sex or anything. thats not what I'm looking for at all.
I am a pretty social person, but lately i've been busy with school work (college) and i'm going to europe for the next 2 months, so is there any way I can meet some new people or find a spark in my love life? I've tried online dating but it doesn't really work for me especially since you have to pay. I've tried meeting people at parties and social gatherings but its always awkward because I don't know them that well. Ive tried talking to guys in classes but they either don't feel the same way about me or we have nothing in common.
Help! Please and thank you :)
19/f
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to date! Your only nineteen years old, so don't think there's anything wrong with "looking." Since your in college have you tried joining clubs at your school? Or you could ask some of your friends to set you up with a friend. Since you've tried the online dating thing, it can't be any more different then that, and it's free. If you see a cutie just go up and start a conversation. Try to find some common interests (Music, Majors, Etc.) Keep your eye on the prize babe :)
xoxo,
dottie4
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone. It's nice being single but it's nice to be able to cuddle. To some the grass is always greener on the other side. Relationships can be stressful and can be hard work whereas being single you make up your own rules and you can have fun. My suggestion is to continue being single especially because your young and you should enjoy it. I was always looking to be in a relaitonship when I was younger and finally one day I stopped and concentrated on something else. You can meet guys through friends or at social events. As far as online dating goes I didn't have much luck in the past but there is one site that's free called okcupid.com and its a fun site. All you need is patience, and it the words of Diana Ross and the Supremes 'you can't hurry love'.
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