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im in love with him
hey you answered my question about the guy i'm in love with
well i agree with what you said about me coming on too strong. I also agree with you that I should back off and give him space..
the thing is though, i have been giving him space for the past 2 months and it seems like nothing has changed. I am also scared that if I give him space, it will be too much space.. I don't want to end up losing him :( I don't want him to think i'm ignoring him or forgetting him, because that is definitely not the case. I also don't want to give him too much space because what if he finds another girl? He told me that his previous relationships were horrible and that his love life is a messy part of his life and he hates dealing with it.. so i guess that means he doesn't want a relationship at all?
is there any advice you can give me which will make me more calm and assured about this? I'm worried about giving him too much space and I don't know what to do because I can't stop thinking about him.
Thanks :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
It's a tough call to make because everyone is different. I find myself sometimes looking at "Signs a guy is in love with you" and thinking to myself does my boyfriend really love me. It's silly of me to look at that but I do I guess I sometimes need to assure myself. I think you really have only that on your mind and I understand I've been there and done that. I've calmed down over the years but I sometimes think about what can I do for my boyfriend.
I think the best thing for you is to do your own thing and be you. Don't worry so much about him and what he needs you know? If for 2 months he's been treating you the same way and you don't like it why stay? Why keep letting him act the way he does? Have you talked to him about it?
I know you don't want to walk away but maybe it's the best thing. He doesn't seem to know what he wants anyway so why give him the benefit of the doubt? You want someone who wants to be with you, who calls you to see how your day is doing, and to go above and beyond. I'm not saying there is anyway like prince charming out there but you want him to make an effort to come hang out. Now I'm not one of those girls with a huge list of what I expect from a guy. I am however the type of girl that expects a guy to prove and show that he cares about me through his own ways. If you need to talk you can message me here or even email me ohthatgirl1987@yahoo.com
Good luck and keep your head up! :)
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