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my best punishment for failure must be death.


Question Posted Saturday December 10 2011, 5:12 am

am totally fedup and think i can't do nothing to change my destiny. My great ancestors where poor, my father poor that he even abundoned us. Moma poor and the whole clan. I have tried with all the money i had to make it but lost all my money. Moma always tells me i might be like my father yet i hate his ways, style and everything about him.I can't move any longer with this kind of life in Africa when there are people well off!! if i cant have it then my best punishment for failure must be death.am looking for the easiest way to die before january 10th. tried disone but failed to kill me. this year i wanted to join the US army front in either Iraq or Afagnistan in order to atleast die a fighter and easy but i was told they are moving out.what it the easiest and quickes way to die. (roymdking@yahoo.com)

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AdviceMistress answered Monday December 12 2011, 10:19 am:
Failure isn't something that should be looked at in a negative way. If anything failure should push you to get back up and try again. How is committing an act so tragic going to help you? The answer is it's not. As I have have said it before and I'll say it again suicide is never the answer. I have known people who feel there is no way out and they feel that the only way to get out is to die. That's not the answer and it's not the truth. You have the power to change yourself no one else does and you have the power to control your future. So what what you fell off your horse. Get back up and start again! Please stay positive! If you need to talk to someone I would be more than happy to talk to you ohthatgirl1987@yahoo.com

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Rumely answered Sunday December 11 2011, 12:06 am:
I'm having difficulty understanding why failure demands punishment. Is not failure itself punishment enough? Punishing yourself by killing yourself won't fix or make up for the poverty of previous generations, or the mistakes of current generations, nor even your own mistakes and failings.

Nobody here is going to tell you how to die. If you will give us a chance, however, we will do our best to help you to live. You are welcome to stop by my profile page and I will listen to what you have to say and will point you in the direction of hope. Your life has inestimable value, and suicide will only cut it short before you can begin to mine the depths of that value.

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