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to love so much
how can I do to love a little less??
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Why do you want to love less? Why wouldn't you want to go into a relationship putting all your heart into it?
It sounds to me like you're scared and you don't want to get hurt which is what everyone tries to avoid. If you don't take a risk with love than you'll never experienc the full affect. It's not loving less its not making the other person more important than you. That person is not the world they are apart of your life but you shouldn't always think about them. Think about yourself and what you want. It's okay to cater someone once in a while but you have to remember that you had a life before he came around. You are going to go through heartbreak whether you like it or not my dear there's no way to avoid it. Don't think about the negative things be positive and have good thoughtrs. If you're always thinking bad or negative then those hegative thoughts will eventually happen and make you worry more. Live in the NOW and stay positive!
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Create yourself an identity without him. Spend more time with your friends or by yourself doing something you enjoy. The key is to be independent so that your life doesn't revolve around him, that way when things go wrong it doesn't hurt so much - and ironically it makes it less likely to go wrong because he'll actually start to chase you a little.
Wait for him to call you. Call and text him less. Don't ask to see him all the time. You'll end up having a little bit of space for like, a week, but then he'll end up calling and texting you more.
It's really easy to lose your identity in a relationship but trust me, find a bit of dependence from him and you'll like yourself so much more, and so will he.
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