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i m sick of my life
my qustion is..
i m not getting good marks in studies. My parents scold me every time. I want to die now. Please help me out.???
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I was never a good test taker, I'm still not. Some of us are more oral than written. Those of us that are more oral than written do poorly on tests and standardized test though it is not for the lack of knowledge in the subject matter.
If this sounds Ike you then you need to see if the school will help you out by testing you in a different manner. Public schools are Like factories the churn out one type of product. If they need to customize their production for some reason they can get down right stubborn.
There is a test that you can be give to find out if you are someone that is more oral or verbal as it is called. Fortunately it is not a written test. It is a test that is given by a psychologist, one your parents can hire or the school psychologist can test you for.
I would recommend you talk to your parents on the subject of being more oral or verbal than written. You can tell them that you wrote to us and one of the ADULT adviser suggest you be tested. If I am correct and you are more verbal. Your parents face a battle with the school.
There is no reason why if you know the subject matter that you should be penalized for what is known as a learning disorder. Your parents will have to push the school to move out of their comfort zone to accommodate your learning disorder.
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don't talk about your life that way. The mind is very complex.. If you say things like that, it will affect the way you think and that is why you're not getting good grades.
think positively! If you take a test, think "i'm going to get a great score on this test and my parents will be so proud of me". If you think that way, it affects your mind in a good way and it will make you more confident and you'll do better in life. its a proven fact.
Also, try putting more time and effort into your studies. Instead of watching that extra episode of tv, take that hour and study! Make sure you're studying in a good place.. like a desk. Studying in front of the tv, or on your bed is not a good idea. Make sure you're getting enough rest and eating healthy. Working out also helps your mentality get stronger and smarter.
Talk to people who could help you with your studies- such as professors or other students. Maybe ask for a tutor if its necessary.
Good luck and remember to stay positive! you can do anything you want if you just set your mind to it and believe you can do it :)
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