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never really felt like this before?
15|f Well this week i had to stay after school to do some extra credit for my advanced english class and some other girls and guys were staying after also but when i walked in there was this older boy in there and i was like oh? And my teacher was like this is brian he will help you if you need it and so i said ok. Well i was just kinda thinking hes kinda cute(hes in his first year of college)for an older guy. Well i sat down and starting workimg like normal but i started to feel shy and nervous. And like a couple of minutes later he came up to and asked me if i need needed help and it was so embareasing my voice kinda broke and i was like no thank you i was sonembarrased so after a while a just felt so nervous i walked out. Well I came back again the next day and he was there again and i was like oh snap. And i became nervous and my face turned red and i even forgot what i was doing! I dont know why,? ive never felt like that with guys ive liked or have crushes on before even whem i met a famous person once i didmt act like tht, it was so weird. But anyway when i finally sat down he came oveerr and smiled and he said are you having any trouble and i was like umm no thanks. And looked back down at my paper and i sware from that moment he stood two steps back from my desk and stared at me for the whole time!!! And i was just sitting there face red palm sweating about to cry. Finally my teacher said we could leave so i hurried amd left. When i got out in my car i couldnt even talk to my mom my voice kept cracking and i couldnt even talk and my mom was like whats wrong and i told her the story about how i thought he was cute and that he litteraly stood two steps back from my desk and stared at me the whole time. Then my mom said he may like you, and i was like oh my gosh! but hes in his first year of college and then my mom said so?. I was shocked! So why do u think i acted\am actimg so weird do u think he coukd possibly like me im so confused from how i acted because ive never acted liked that before not even with boys my age i really liked so please help thanks a bunch:D
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This is really normal when you are interested in someone but are afraid that you may not measure up to his expectations. Don't worry about it. It happens to us all at one time or another.
One thing, though: depending on the laws of your state, it could get him in a great deal of hot water if your relationship goes sexual. So while the attention of an older male is a turn on for a lot of teenage girls, from a legal standpoint engaging with one can be rather troublesome. For example, if you live in California, the age of consent there is 18. So if you got with him he would end up as a lifetime registered sex offender.
In most states now, too, even if the conduct is consensual, the DA is still permitted to file and prosecute even if you don't press charges because you legally cannot give consent.
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Obviously you have a huge crush on him and he may be interested in you or perhaps he can tell you are really into him because you appear so nervous but you should really let this feeling go. Lets say he is interested in you; wouldn't you wonder whats wrong with a guy whos probably 18 or 19 in college interested in a 15 year old girl? He's got serious problems and you really don't need to be apart of that. Who else's eye has he caught wouldn't you wonder. Forget about him and focus on your school work.
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