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so, how long do i wait???
hai thurr
you helped me out with my virgin boyfriend before! haha, but i was just wondering how long i should wait before i actually try to do anything.
and also, how would i go about getting into the uhh..situation?
like i said, im a dominant person in a relationship.
he didnt even know how to finger me, which he was embarrassed by, but i didnt mind..
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There shouldn't be a time limit to how long you should wait. You'll know when the time is right, because of the past experiences you've had before. If you want to be safe than sorry, I'd wait ti'll you guys are together for atleast 4-6 months, because you guys are still so young into the relationship anything can happen; you don't wanna feel bad for taking his virginity and than something happen and you guys don't work out. Sex isn't everything, so I'd take it slow.
Just make sure you guys use protection and/or birth controll; you don't want any babies! hahah.
Well, before you decide its time to have sex. Talk to him first. Make sure he's ok with doing it, because you don't wanna seem like your pressuring him. Figure out why he's waited this long to loose his virginity; like I said before, it could be morals, or never had the opportunity.
But if he's okay with it, than just start with the typical fingering, blow jobs, hand job, whatever you guys are comfortable with. Kissing and rubbing on each other really helps that.
Since you said he didn't know how to finger you, maybe you should take baby steps. You don't want him to be over whelmed and feel not good enough, ya know?
While he's fingering you, don't be bossy, or rude (not saying you are; just saying this will turn him off and give up completely on trying) kind of lead him to what feels good to you in a real sexual tone; that'll turn him on. Let him know also that he's doing it right once he finds that spot.
Example:
"Right here"
"Go faster"
"Oh yeah babe"
Sorry if thats too much, lol
But whatever your comfortable saying; I'm sure he will lvoe it. When he realizes what you like, you won't have to communicate with him about it anymore. Its just to help him loosen up.
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