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You'll never believe it..
Hi witty, its annashae!
I haven't talked to you in a couple months. Just want to let you know your advice is working for me and I am taking it. I am doing alot better than i was the last time we talked and it is because of your advice.
I dont know where to even begin, but guy in chem is just a friend now. And i think its best he stays that, and eng tutor just turned awkward and didnt work out. He offered being friends and i said thats fine but i kinda just let that fade and stopped going to him.
As soon as i stopped going to tutoring one random day this random guy i saw around alot in the library came up to me and introduced himself said hes been waiting for me to be alone so he could approach me. We hit it off right away. But we moved so quick into a relationship, no we have not had sex but we just had are one month the othr day.
Its just so amazing, my frown has finally been turned upside down. This guy out of nowhr just appeared into my life, and i really am falling for him. Wer so alike in what we like too and we dont have an age gap! He makes me laugh, feel special, and have fun, and i dont know he cares about me, and i like that bout him alot. I do care bout him too as well, and im serious about falling for him. I keep tryna deny tht i like him more than a crush im not sure why. Its crazy i thought a guy would never like me in that way ever and its happening to me now! its so crazy how amazing this feels, and how amazing being around him feels.
But yes i have begun to move on from my past thanks to your words.. and i mean that! i woulda been in the same slum as i was before.
I wanted to fill you in on whats been going on, i hope you care! god i cant stop smiling. Btw he texts me everyday, and we talk for hours whn he does, we see each othr everyday too is tht bad? cause we dont hangout alot because weeknds are so busy for him cause he only works weekends???
Cant wait for you to respond!
Annashae,
P.S hope your doing welll with the wife!
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It's good to hear that things are looking up for you.
I'd wager a guess that the "trying to deny your feelings" thing is self defense. You're still a little scared of being hurt, of liking him more than he likes you, so you're holding back just a little.
It's not unhealthy. Most people work that way to some degree, I know I do (did).
Don't worry too much about what your relationship is supposed to be like. Every relationship has a different dynamic. Every relationship I've personally had has had a different dynamic, because no two people interact in exactly the same ways and no two people will interact exactly the same way with you. Talking every day isn't bad at all if that's what you both want, what's important here is that you both get what you need. If one of you needs space, you communicate about it and compromise on it and work it out. If you don't need space you smother each other (in a good way) and just have at it.
Just keep a positive outlook. Positive attracts positive and encourages positive. When two people like each other the things you screw up matter less and the things you get right matter more, so just get as much right as you can and the rest will work itself out.
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