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Boyfriend Issues..
Okay, so me and my boyfriend are having problems my friend Dezeray told him that I wanted him to move to Florida(Like his mom had planed) but he didn't so he could stay with me. But now he don't believe me when I said I don't want him to move. He also tells me he don't believe me when I say I love him. I need advice on what to say to him we're both hurting very bad and neither one of us want to end the relationship...help? Thanks!( :
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You should tell him he should believe you
over your friend after all you are his girlfriend also say that you do love him & you wouldn't say it for the sake of saying it or for nothing the same goes for him not believing you about him moving you wouldn't lie it would be a different story if you told him yourself you wanted him to move tell him he shouldn't always believe what others say because the person could be lieing & saying things that aren't true he doesn't know if what your friend said is true he's just going by what he or she said without actually hearing your
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This is tough. The guys won't accept what you say and yet he doesn't want to end the relationship? Are you sending him a lot of mixed signals perhaps? Are you physically and emotionally present and supportive of him? Do you guys have lots of alone time together or do you insist on having your friends (I hate to say it, but most boyfriends consider their girlfriend's friends to be pains in the ass and inconvenient baggage) around a lot when he would prefer it just be the two of you? If your answer is no to the first two questions that will be the likely source of the problem. He wants to be number one in your life, not an adjunct to what you have with your friends.
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