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BESTFRIEND OR BOYFRIEND
I met this guy at my friend’s party. He was his ex boyfriend but also best friend. Me and him started talking a lot on the phone after we meet, we text everyday for 2 months straight and call each other every night. I think I like him I don’t know. At the beginning he told me he also liked me, but then I told him some stuff about my ex and he told me I GUESS THIS IS GOODBYE and since then we haven’t been the same. We still text everyday but it’s not a lot anymore, and we haven’t talk on the phone for more than 2 weeks. But I think it was because my best friend (also his ex girlfriend) started to talk to him again; they know everything about each other because they been friends for almost 6 years! She told me that he wanted something with her and she just wanted to play with him.I don’t know what to do anymore I cant tell him what my friend is going to do. And they are going to see each other this week. I want him to like me but I also cant date him because of my bestfriend. Everything is very complicated. Please help me.
I’m a 15 year old girl.
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RELAX! Without knowing what you told him about your ex, I can't really tell you why things changed between you two. As for your best friend, don't you think it's a little rude that she would mess with him at all...even if she is just toying with him, especially, since she knows how you feel about him? That doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. Is that the kind of person you want to associate with? Don't get me wrong...I'm not judging your friend. I can't because I don't know her, and I don't know the whole story here. I just had to ask, because if it were my friend (which has happened to me A LOT!), I'd feel a bit betrayed. I would confront her about that. I'm not saying "go start a fight" or anything, but if it's bothering you, and if she really is your friend, then you should be able to tell her that.
As for the guy, you may have somehow offended him with the info about your ex, but if he's still talking to you, there's still hope. I can't count how many times my boyfriend told me "goodbye" or "don't ever talk to me again" before we started dating. Keep the lines of communication open. It may be awkward now, but that fades with time. Talk to him. Ask him if there is anything that you said/did wrong. Explain to him that you feel like you two are getting more and more distant. Ask him again how he feels about you. But, guard your heart. You may find out that things have changed and he isn't interested anymore. If that's the case then, obviously, that's gonna hurt quite a bit. If you brace yourself for bad news, it won't hurt nearly as much, and you can get over it easier.
You are so young. There will be plenty of other guys, crossing paths with you. Don't get all wrapped up in this one guy (unless you two do start dating). If it turns sour, then don't let it phase you. It's his loss, and you will someday meet one who is perfect for you.
I really hope that helps! Good luck!
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Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Go find someone else. Drama like this just overcomplicates life and life is too short to put up with it. Bow out of the whole situation and let the chips fall where they may.
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First off F*ck the haters if your friend was a good friend she would back off and tell you it okkay to date him.
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