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Why can't I get over him?
Hi, my name is Loni I'm from Chicago but I moved to California and I'm 15 years old. It's been 5 months now and I still have this big crush on this boy who lives in Illinois. I can never stop thinking about him. Everytime I try to forget him I just simply can't. I was in 9th grade when I met him. Around that time I was having a miserable school year, I was always fighting with my mom,I couldn't get along with kids at school and most of the people who I thought were my friends potrayed me and I was so hurt. I felt alone. Then when I met the boy I like my whole world changed.He was in my Gym class. He was so sweet to me and he made me feel special, he would smile at me when we passed eachother in the hall ways, he would do nice things for me like stick up for me if people said something mean to me, he was captain for his team and he always wanted me on his team. He would always sit facing towards me so he could see me and he always encouraged me in sports. I really liked him because he was so different from any other boy I have ever known in my life. Even though we didn't know eachother, I wanted to tell him how I felt but was too shy. I sent him a message on Facebook but he never reponded. Sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy because I'm too far away from him but I can't get him off my mind. I'm trying to move on because I'm not in Illinois anymore but it's hard. I've never felt this way about someone and I just don't know what to do Cause I still like him.
Why can't I get over him?
How can I stop thinking about him?
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Well you have to keep reminding yourself that if he felt the same way, he would have replied back. Plus the distance will only cause more pain and heartbreak if it was to work out. He was just a crush. Nothing more, nothing less. I think one reason why you may like him, is because it seemed like he was the only one at that school that was sincerely on your side, and not against you. Kind of seems like a situation of when someone saves your life, you begin to infactuate over them and think your in love. When your really not, its just you appreciate and love what they did for you. Ya know? If that doesn't make sense I'm sorry.
You can get over him, your just not allowing yourself too. You believe there might be a chance between you and this guy; and before you can move on, you have to realize there isn't. Meet new people, put yourself out there by being social. The more boys you meet, the more you will be able to take your mind off of this boy.
You can't really stop yourself from thinking about him, sucks, I know. But you can always do things to distract you. As long as you are using your mind to distract thoughts of him, than you'll be okay. Try finding a hobby you like to do, and also try things that will make your brain work. Like puzzles, or games. These things will make you concentrate on other things, and not so much on him. Than after you do that, of course you will go back to thinking about him, but it'll come with time. You may always think back on him and remember what he did for you;
Good Luck to you!
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