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How do i tell my best friend i like them?
i am in love with my best friend, who told me that she used to have a crush on me but decided it was too awkward and that we couldnt be together. But now i cant stop thinking about her and i get butterflies in my stomach every time i see her or think about her. I dont know if i can tell her how i feel because if i tell her she might not want to talk to me anymore and i dont want to lose her. Also i am a girl, and both of us are bisexual. which poses a problem because if we did get into a relationship, i could never tell my parents or my friends because i havent come out of the closet yet, and she has only come out to her mom. Im worried that if i try to tell my parents about it then they will just make fun of me because neither of them take anything seriously. I REALLY like this girl, but i have no idea what to do about it...please help
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I'd would tell her! Being bisexual is perfectly fine. It may take your parents a little bit to understand and soak it in, but they will always love you unconditional dispite what they don't agree on for you.
You have to think though, its normal for girls to have sleep overs and what not, so if you aren't comfortable telling you parents, you could always make it a secret until you know that it will work out great. You could always invite her over to stay the night and than be affectionate behind closed doors. Parents would never allow a sleepover with a dude, or even sleep in the same bed;
but since she's a girl, I think your okay.
Just relax and tell her how you feel; let her know if it bothers her, than you would rather have her as a friend rather than nothing at all!
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There is nothing wrong with being bisexual.
Your parents are your parents, and to a degree they would take you seriously.
Sit them down tell them how you feel, they are your parents and they will HAVE to understand.
If you really like this girl, tell her.
She used to like you before, chances are she still likes you.
Maybe ask her out, so you guys can feel if it is right.
If you really love her, life will find its way and you two will be together.
-Ask Alice
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