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I don't know what he wabts
so there's this guy his name is jake. I don't know jake personally but I do know that he used to go to my school before he moved and that he has mutual friends as me on facebook. About 4 months ago jake commented on one of my pictures and put "youre cute ;)" a couple months after that he messaged me on facebook and asked how I know him when I put I don't know you added me, he replied back with telling me that I was cute again. We started talking through messages on facebook I thought he was cool, so when he asked for my number I gave it to him now he will NOT quit texting me. And he's one of those people that if you don't reply he resends it. He says the same thing everytime too. He simply just puts "hey what are you doing gorgeous?" I would be flattered if it was a guy I actually knew calling me gorgeous but the fact that I don't know him creeps me out. There have been a few times that he has asked me personal questions about sex, and asking me if I party alot. I told my brother about the text messages because he's actually met jake before and he got really upset he told me that he would be okay with me talking to any other guy but not him. I went through jakes facebook and on one of his statuses his ex girlfriend commented on it and put "once a cheater always a cheater" 3 people liked it. Oh and i forgot to mention the whole time started texting me he had a girlfriend even had it posted on facebook that he was in a facebook. Now it just says that he is single on that status where his ex girlfriend called him a cheater he demanded that he had changed. Jake is now trying to hang out with me, should I hang out with him and give him a chance but not do anything intimate with him? Or should I just ignore him for the simple fact of what I've heard about him? Do you think jake is just using me for sex, or do you think he's just being a typical 18 year old boy?
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Hm,
Well, that is up to you. If you would like to give him a chance and make your own impression of him than I would. You can't always believe what people say, and you shouldn't judge someone off of other peoples opinion. Hanging out just as friends would be something you could do that will allow you to get to know him.
Since he feels like its okay to ask you personal questions, how about you ask him some? Not talking about sex or anything, but more like his past relationships. Like his last girlfriend, why they broke up, and even what the whole cheater thing was about. Get his answers, and if you feel a connection with him and you are cautious with being with him; thats when I'd kinda snoop around and maybe ask one of his ex's how Jake is as a boyfriend. There will be a good chance she will feed you lies about him, but you have to make a good decision about what to do.
Not sure if he is using you for sex, you will know when you guys try to hang out; if he's pushy, all over you, or is constantly talkign about it; than that throws up red flags.
After all this goes on, you can decide whether you want to continue with talkin to him, or ignoring him.
Good luck,
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