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why doesn't he text me anymore


Question Posted Monday November 21 2011, 9:02 pm

about two months agoo, i started talking to this guy we would txt 24/7. he would always txt me first like always! he would call me cute and beautiful and a bunch of cute things. i felt like he liked me cuz he would ask for kisses and stuff . at school he looked happy to see me and he always hugged me alot. but then i had a feeling that he was trying to flirt with someone else so i kind of lost interest in him so i won\'t get hurt yu know? & i couldnt do it so i txted him and he was txting weird he didnt put smileys or anything and it was just the awkward type of convos. i dont know why but that made me feel like he didnt want to talk to me. but then at school he still hugs me the same and everything and its been a amonth kinda that he hasnt txted me at all! but i dont wanna txt him cuz i dont wanna bug whyyy is it that he doesnt txt me anymore or he doesnt txt the same when i txt him? plezzz help!

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VoiceofReason answered Thursday December 1 2011, 2:34 am:
He sensed that you were pulling back and so he was reluctant to keep sticking his neck out. Either that or he is just doing the minimum to maintain a relationship with you so that he can make you the relief pitcher should the other girls he is going after not respond to him the way he wants.

Listen, if you're gut tells you something is wrong it is indeed wrong. Always listen to your gut. You did well to do so here.

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annabanana answered Tuesday November 22 2011, 11:37 pm:
aw, its hard when we miss the attention, I really am not sure but I guess he is texting someone else now?
You can FEEL, the gut feel you have is protecting you and you should listen to it.. If you were the one with a friend texting you but you didnt feel like it, would you reply or still be all nice and friendly?
am sorry but maybe he just lost interest like what you said u did too..
IF HE TREASURED YOUR FRIENDSHIP, HE WOULD CONTINUE NURTURING IT BY KEEPING IN TOUCH AND knowing how things are with you. So thats it. true friends care.
Do u think he is worth it? you might just get hurt in the end if he is hot and cold and so unpredictable or flirting with other girls,...
i suggest keep busy, find other friends out there and just be the good person that you are! have a great day!
If he texts you fine, dont start the texting!!

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skye2die answered Tuesday November 22 2011, 8:34 pm:
he might feel awkward texting to much you should start

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