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my boyriend wants to finger me


Question Posted Monday November 21 2011, 1:34 pm

so first off im 15/f

my boyfriend asked if it would be ok if he fingered me and i really dont know im a virgin and my friends all tease me about it but ive always been kinda proud of it but i am completly in love with him we have been together 5 months please help asap


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Jackieee answered Tuesday November 22 2011, 7:17 am:
There's a motto that goes around on Advicenators that goes something like this: "If you have to ask, don't do it." If you're ever unsure about anything in a relationship, don't do it.

Tell your friends to buzz off, that you have enough pride and security about yourself that you're in no rush for anything. Let your relationship take its own course between you and your boyfriend; it has nothing to do with your friends so they should mind their own business.

I was just like you when I was 15. A virgin in every way and VERY proud of it. It's not even a big deal so I don't know why kids these days make it such an atrocity if you haven't gone to "second base".

IT'S YOUR RELATIONSHIP. Do what you want. Don't ever feel pressured by your friends or boyfriend or anyone else for that matter. If your boyfriend is pressuring you (in the future), you need to break it off with him because all he wants is sex and not a relationship.

So, my advice to you is don't do anything yet. Just wait, you have plenty of time.

I hope I helped!
Jackieee

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