Question Posted Thursday November 17 2011, 12:13 am
I have ONLY had protected sex (condoms) , but im concerned that I am pregnant. The only time i had a broken condom, he only had precum and i took the morning after pill. He has never came on the outside of my vagina, and he always pulls out. If a guy doesnt cum into your vagina, what is the likelihood that you will get pregnant? Like, does the sperm have as much of an effect if it is not "shot" up the vagina? Most people can go by a missed period, but my period is very irregular. I have not gotten it, but for me that doesnt mean too much. I've taken pregnancy tests and they have all been negative, but should i trust them? Any ideas about anything would be helpful. Thanks
You took the morning after pill; the home pregnancy test(s) are negatives; so I would suggest you stop worrying. To answer your question on home testing. One test showing a negative could be a false answer, multiple tests giving the same answer is a probability that the answer is correct.
You don't say how old you are but I'm going to guess you are somewhere between 13 and 18. Please reread what you have written to us. From what you have written I see two main things.
First: You are almost paranoid about the possibility you are pregnant. This and what I will write as the second thing leads me to believe you are closer in age to 13.
Second: Your knowledge of sexual reproduction,"Like, does the sperm have as much of an effect if it is not "shot" up the vagina?" is woefully in need of greater knowledge and understanding. To answer your question; anytime sperm enter the vagina the chance of pregnancy is there. If sperm lands near the vagina and can make entrance, pregnancy is possible. The further the sperm has to swim the less likely the chance of pregnancy. Just remember it only takes one strong swimmer to become pregnant if the time is right for you.
My suggestion is:you refrain from any more sexual intercourse's until you are older and understand just what the consequences of adult sexual relations are. Keep in mind one thing about teenage boy. Actually two things. One they are hard wired at puberty to have sex. Because of this they confuse love and lust. Second they cannot keep a secret. Once you have sex with them they are going to tell somebody. Most likely their best buddy. Before you know it your name is on a bathroom wall. "For a good time call _____. You become very popular, but not for the reasons you want. How do I know that? I was once I teenage boy.
My advise is to keep you pants and panties on. Once there off your chances of pregnancy increase .exponentially If you feel you must satisfy your BFs sexual needs, there are other ways of doing so that so not require you to get undressed. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Jasmine23 answered Thursday November 17 2011, 2:16 am: first off how late are you? as in 2 days a week?
second off. please get of the misconseption that sperm is 'shot' up the vagina.. very false.
Sperm is released whenever the male cums. Including precum. It then 'travels' thru the woman into the vagina. not shoots it to the vagina.
Even if your period has not came and is extrmely late. i would definetly check with your doctor as multiple negative pregnancy tests might only mean that you don't have enought pregnancy hormones in your body for it to pickup. so ifyou don't get it with in the next week and a half i would definetly tell your family doctor. [ Jasmine23's advice column | Ask Jasmine23 A Question ]
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