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i have done many things behind his back
so me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months now, and well for the past 4 months i have done many things behind his back like hangout with other guys lied to him and recently he found i was still talking with my ex. he got upset to the point he had enough but he gave me one last chance he said if i could prove to him things were different he would forget everything. i'm not sure what to do anymore i want to keep my relationship but we fight everyday what should i do?
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Good thing for you your boyfriend is a pussy. Because any self respecting guy would have hit the eject button on you a long time ago. Sorry, gotta call 'em like I see 'em.
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If he was doing all those things behind your back, how would you feel? Would you trust him? Would you have given him a second chance?
You cannot get mad at the fighting, because you put that on yourself. You should have been loyal to him, honest to him, and not given him any reason to not trust you. I'm sure your learning from that now, or you wouldn't be posting on this website for help.
You need to figure out, if the fightin is worth it. Is he worth it? He obviously thinks you are worth it because he has found a space in his heart to give you another chance.
You can stop all the things that are causing him not to trust you, or you can leave him and continue doing them.
If you aren't sure how to prove yourself to him, ask him. Be like, "What can I do to show you that I'm sorry, and I won't do those things again"
You may have to stop talking to your ex, hanging out with guys completely, and stop the lying.
If you need anything else, just inbox me, or send me an email to xxbbyxitsxyouxx@aol.com
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You should stop doing those things and don't waste the second chance he gave to you. If you can't do that then you should stop seeing him.
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He doesn't trust you, Do you blame him?
A relationship is about trust, respect and communication if you don't have neither then your relationship is doomed. You betrayed him and from the sound of it even the possibility of trying to prove him wrong may not fix the situation. Trying to prove someone wrong doesn't make what you did okay or right. If you want a real relationship then be faithful because if you were my girlfriend you'd be out the door. Now what should you do? I'd say try and talk to him about the situation and see if you both can work it out, If you have to gain his trust back then do so but don't get your hopes up on trying to erase your mistake. I don't know you or your boyfriend but things can only be taken so far before they are just permanently damaged.
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