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I haven't heard from in 2 days!!
So I have been dating this guy for about a month and everything has been going great. We text at least once or twice a day , hang out atleast 3 times a week, and have gone on tons of dates but we made plans to hang out 3 days ago and he said he had a really bad day at work and didnt want to hang out but we would hang out another time. Then he said he would give me a call the next day. That was 3 days ago and I have still to hear back from him. Does this mean its over? Should i text him? I usually would never worry over a guy but everything just seemed to be going so great i dont undersatnd why he could just not give me the slightest thought to atleast send me a text.
thanks, your advice means a lot
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Sounds like he may be going through a rough time. Don't seem needy, or even clingy. Give him some space. I know its hard, because you have a lot of questions going through your mind, and as a girlfriend (women are loving, caregivers, and open armed) you just want to be there for him, and atleast hear from him and know he is okay. Its tough, I know. (Ive been in the situation before, and I blew it; ugh) I was too clingy. I called him, and texted him mulitble times, and that did nothing but push him away, when I thought it really would make he see I cared; I cared a little too much. If I was you, I would send him a text or voicemail; Be the 3 S's. Short, simple, and sweet. Tell him, "Haven't heard from you in a few days, hope your okay, just wanted to let you know I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to; miss you, love you, (whatever, lol) whenever your ready to talk, I'm here. I'm not going anywhere"
That will show him you care for him, your thinking of him, and your there when HE needs you. Your not being pushy, clingy, and your not over doing it.
If a week goes by and nothing is goin on, try calling him or seeing him and ask him if he's going through a hard time with work, or if he's really trying to push you away.
Good Luck!
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No, don't text him, give him some time. Go out with your girlfriends and keep yourself busy. Let him know that you can give him space and that you too have a life of your own. He will be more interested in what you are doing and why you haven't called and think he is missing something, hopefully you!
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