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forgot to invite her to my birthday
my mums best friends daughter and i have always been close, our families always go out together and we get on, we've always been there for eachother but in the past year we dont see eachother as much, we're so different; im loud and confident to talk to people and shes quiet and is doesnt really like to go out. i had a house party for my birthday and i mentioned it to her when i saw her about a month before it was happening, and she said she didnt know whether she wanted to come, i said she could bring someone and she still said she didnt know, i saw her a couple of times after that but the party didnt come up. i found out shed gone on holiday a week before the party and didnt know how long she was going for, but i did plan to inbox her to invite her anyway, but somehow i forgot and on the day of the party i remember thinking i should invite her, but didnt act on it, which i regret, i guess i thought id left it too late and i hadnt heard she was back so it was easier for me to just take it she was on hoiday. anyway about half hour before the party my mum asked whether id rung the girl and i said i thought she was on holiday, turns out she wasnt so i went to ring her straight away, but people arrived early and once again i just forgot, by the time i did ring her the party had started and her mum was angry and shouted at me for inviting her last minute, ive apologised and shes written back to say forget about it but our families dont speak anymore and i just feel dreadful, its always on my mind and i seem to find myself thinking about the day and whether i didnt ring her up beacause i forgot or just because i didnt really want her there, i just feel awful, would be great of someone could help!
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i know that you two are in a fight now because you didn't invite her. I know you probably don't want to hear this but it if your fault and only your fault for not inviting your friend. If I were you I would let it go for a couple of weeks and then one day sent her a email or what would be better is if you sent he a hand written letter and say how you are so sorry and how she said that her family was on vacation and you didn't know when they would get back.. at the end say once again im sorry and maybe she will send something back and if she does not don't worry she WILL forget about the whole situation. If she does not reply with in a month try calling her and if she does not answer leave her a voice mail. Dont worry like I said before she WILL forget about the whole problem....
Hope I helped.
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