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How can you get some one you used to be so close with back in your life?
How to get some one back in your life that used to mean so much to you?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You know, I was struggling with the same thing. I had a bestfriend for 5 years; we were closer than a set of siblings. We didn't everything together, she was literally all I had during those 5 years. She met a guy, lost her virginity to him, and he told her to stop being friends with me. She did. I was devistated. I literally felt like I lost my other half. I didn't really have any other friends; I devoted all my time to her. Do I regret it? NO. Not at all. Do I miss it? Yes, of course.
I know your kind of wondering, "Why the heck are you telling me all that",
To inform you, its a way of life. It's been two years since we stoppd being friends; I recently wanted her back in my life, since we are in college together. She stayed the night, we hung out a couple of times; but things just aren't the same. She changed, majorly. She has her own bestfriend, just like I was when I was hers. It just hit me that you know, everything happens for a reason, and I can accept it and move on, or grieve about it.
Sorry if you don't find the information useful, but all I can tell you, is try.
Don't give up. Unless you feel like there is no point anymore. Like I did.
You can either accept the way things are, or you can stay stuck in the past with all the memories. If you really want this person back in your life, you have to ask yourself, "Why did we stop being close in the first place?"
Is it fixable?
Does this person have any interest in being close with you again?
All you can really do, is text, call, IM, voicemail them and tell them you want to meet up, you need to get some things off your chest. If that seems too awkaward for you, than just say it through a text. You could ask, "What happen to us?
" and see why the other person feels why you guys have drifted apart.
I hope this helped; sorry I bored you with my life story.
Good Luck, if you need anything else, please do NOT heistate to send me an email at xxbbyxitsxyouxx@aol.com, or simply just inbox me.
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What about talking? Nothing else is gonna work. Make the first move and start a conversation. Ask questions, offer to go out somewhere, for coffee or a movie or lunch or whatever.
You're not going to magically form the connection you once had in a day, it'll take some time, but keep at it. If it doesn't happen, then it's not meant to be.
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