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This is his first relationship and I'm considering breaking up with him
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Right now I'm in a relationship with a guy who's been in my group of friends for a couple years. We've been dating for about two months. And I like him and everything, but I don't think I feel about him the way I should. There's just no spark, at all. And it bothers me because I would like to be with someone who I'm crazy about.
This is his first relationship and I'm considering breaking up with him, but I have no idea how.
My other issue is this other guy. He's a friend of mine, and we had a thing in the past. I'm really, really starting to like him again. He's the one who makes my heart race and gives me butterflies and all that. And I feel like he may like me a little. But my friend has had a history with him and she's still not over it.
I just really don't know what to do. I'm at a complete loss and I need help because I can't even sort through anything.
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Well if you're not happy with him then you probably should end it. It's gonna hurt him no matter what so just be up front but not rude about it. If it's possible to stay friends then try that too.
And the guy that you are really starting to like. It'd probably be bad to get mixed up with him too. Only because your friend is still not over him.
Maybe try to be boy free for a little while until you find someone else who can make you happy and you're not confused about your feelings.
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Well, If you aren't feeling the spark in your relationship anymore it could be very possible that maybe you two died out. It's okay to remain friends but once you break up he of course will be devastated. Go with what you feel is right for you, You are not obligated to stay in a relationship you are no longer happy in. If you like the other guy then go for it! Your friend may not be over him but on the other hand she is no longer with him either. If he is available then you wouldn't be doing anything wrong. You could tell your boyfriend that he didn't do anything wrong but you don't feel the spark in your relationship like you used too and think it's best to go your separate ways. After, I would give the guy some time don't try and remain friends right off the bat give him some time to get over it first.
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