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going on a date with my boyfriend and his best friend?
im 19 years old female and my boy is 22 years old. my boyfriend made plans with me well in advance to go out to dinner. but since the new cod game came out his best friend wants to play it. they share the xbox and the game. so instead of going out to eat and going back to my house to watch movies we are going out to dinner with his best friend and we are skipping the movies so that they can go and play after. our last real date just one on one was my birthday march 17, since then people have been tagging along on our dates. im very disappointed because i was actually nervous and was looking forward to it. i never say anything cause i dont want to be the typical girl , how do i even handle this?
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The fact you say nothing all the time is a signal to him that he can always pull this. You have to be stronger and stand up for yourself. It's not fair for the plans to have been changed so his friend can play some game.
Tell your boyfriend that you haven't had one night devoted entirely to you both being alone together since the start of 2011. Tell him that his friend won't suffer any by waiting to play a video game another night. It's not going any place new game or not. Insist on dinner and a movie without anyone else. If he can't do that it says something's not right.
What does he want more a relationship with you or one with his friends and his XBOX. Don`t be afraid to get pissed at him as he`s earned it and you need to show a backbone so he never does it again. He thinks he can walk all over you. Don`t let him. It`s time you let out a roar. As far as the typical GF thing that`s an irrational fear. Speaking up for yourself now and then needs to happen.
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