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MOVE ON OR BE PATIENT


Question Posted Tuesday November 8 2011, 9:54 pm

Its this girl i met a month ago she said she had a real good time with me. She also told me when shes was around me everything was clearer. i told her she special to me and i really enjoy talking to her, she responded by saying the feelings mutual. When we talk our conversations usually last for an hour or more. But the problem is i haven't seen her sense the day we met, she blames her job should i leave her alone or keep pursuing her

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AdviceMistress answered Wednesday November 9 2011, 9:26 am:
Well do you know her job schedule? How many times has she used her job as an excuse?
Maybe talk to her and see if you can come up with a day that works for both of you or something. If she has said it's her job schedule that is getting in the way maybe leave her alone and have her come to you or move on. I don't know whether she's lying her not but if she continues to tell you it's her job maybe it's best to move on and see what else is out there.

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hegibson answered Tuesday November 8 2011, 10:54 pm:
The most patient people are successful! So in other words.....STOP! If you push to much then she will think you're desperate. Woman like men with confidence. Sit back and let her miss you like you're missing her. Don't even mention going out again and find something to do so that you won't appear to be sitting around waiting on her. Watch and see she will want to go out again!

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Xui answered Tuesday November 8 2011, 10:28 pm:
She may have a boyfriend you don't know about, This is half the time the excuse for not wanting to see someone. This girl may like you but at the same time she doesn't appear to be fully honest with you. Maybe this isn't the case here but this is my assumption. You'd figure if she had the hots for you she'd be sticking around more and trying to get to know you. Whatever you do I'd take it real slow, Don't rush things. For a short answer though I would wait and see if she comes to you because if she turns out to be lying at least you have nothing to regret.

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