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about the cherry being popped.
My boyfriend broke my cherry today with only his fingers. How do i know that?? I had blood. I was wondering since that is now popped does it make it easier to have sex for the first time??
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Did your boyfriend break you Hymen with his fingers? That should be your question? The answer to that question is probably not; as you would most likely have felt a tearing sensation.
Most likely his fingernail scratched your vagina causing it to bleed, which can and has happened to other young ladies.
The answer to the question you did write is NO. Your Hymen is an impediment to first intercourse. Your muscular reaction is more of a problem than your Hymen is. If you are nervous or scared you will clamp up and not lubricate enough for a comfortable penetration.
You don't say how old you are. I have a feeling you are about 13 or 14 at this time. This is not an age you should be considering having sexual intercourse.
I'm sure you've heard all the reasons from you parents. Let me add two more. First: Teenage boys cannot keep a secret. If you have sex with a boy he is going to tell his best bud. That information will get around school faster than the Internet could spread it. Before you know it every boy in school will be chasing after you as they want sex as well. Because they don't want to appear as a loser they will tell their friends you slept with them and you get a reputation you don't want.
Second: From the moment puberty hits them teenage boys are hard wired to find a willing sex partner. They have to find away to relieve the sexual tension brought on by the new hormones racing through their bodies. Because of this they confuse lust for love.
How do I know this? I was once a teenage boy as was you father, uncles and grandfathers. Ask them if you don't believe me. They will tell you the same thing.
Sex is a beautiful thing when the time is right. It is not something to be given by you freely to someone you will probably not spend the rest of your life with or be in a long term committed relationship with as an adult.
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He must have the longest finger in the world. Why are you rushing anyway? If I guy thinks he can get LAID he will get LAID! But when he has respect for you then he will wait until both of you are mature and ready for a more intimate relationship. NOTICE: I didn't say SEX!
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