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ive fallen for someone i know is only going to hurt me
18 female
ive fallen for someone and i do not want to have feelings for them anymore. i know in the end that hes only going to hurt me, as he already has begun too. the problem is that i like him so much. he got what he wanted out of me though, and now i feel that he is slowly distancing himself. so i need help or advice on getting past him and these feelings. thanks.
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Well feelings are what makes us humans you can't really get rid of them but you can somehow distract yourself from them. Look you can't help but like or love this guy who as you wrote down seems like a jerk. You have to know one thing and that is that you are better then him, love him, hate him, long for him, and then turn away from him, but know that whatever happens you are better then him and it is his lose that he is distancing himself from you. Respect yourself and go find some hot bad boy and make him regret that he used you and left you. Or if you don't want to move then accpet your feelings learn to embrace them and maybe that will give you some kind of new found confidence.
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I've been there and it stinks.
Caring about someone that knows what to say to you and what you want to hear. I've had a few guys like that and it makes me wonder about guys in genereal. These types of guys really give guys in general a bad name.
My advice would be to think about what is bad about him and what you can't stand about him. The more and more you think about the bad things the more and more unappealing he becomes. Stay away from him and ignore. Cut off all ties with him if you can. You can do better!
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