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I think im just crazy
I am a simple 20 year old. I look like im in my late 20's and i have to ask, what are characteristics that women want in a man. I'm not talking about that confusing bullshit like charming, confident, gentle, strong, and all that crap. Everyone is different. I've traveled to 25 different countries and ive been alone since i was little. I've been to hell and back, and i just would like to find someone who isnt a heartless gold digger bitch, (pardon my french i mean no disrespect to anyone.) I'm culturally sound, I am wise and profound at times, I'm funny, im kind, and given we all have baggage so we all have problems no one is perfect. Why cant i find someone?
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You sound pretty normal to me. The easy answer is that the perfect lady for you maybe waiting around the next corner, all it takes is for you to find her. The hard answer is that not everyone finds their soulmate, its all a matter of chance.
You can't easily change yourself to suit whatever girl you meet so the real answer might be to be true to yourself and wait. Your chances of finding a girl will increase with those characteristics you mention (wise, profound, kind etc.) but I think one of the most important is humour - that goes a long way.
Good luck, hope this helps and let me know how this works out? (I say this after every answer but honestly, I'm really interested if people's lives work out for them.)
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What do you look like? Woman like charming, caring, well rounded the list goes on and on but if she can't look at you then she will drop you and move on to the next guy. Make sure you look good. You have to work with what you've got. Find clothes that make you look and feel confident about yourself. Make sure you keep yourself well groomed, woman don't like guys that stink or don't take care of themselves. And you have to have confidence. If you don't even like you then nobody else will either. The main thing is if you don't like what you see in the mirror then makes adjustments so you will. Good luck!
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Being only 16, my answer is quite limited but just wondering... have you tried to put yourself out there? Do you go out to social events? Do you make an effort to be flirtatious and be inviting? Do you have mutual friends that you could meet a possible girlfriend from? These all play huge factors. I know sometimes it doesn't matter how much confidence, charm, or "swagger" a guy has, it's about if he has enough balls (to bluntly put it) to make a conversation with an unknown female. Being welcoming is key to finding someone.
It sounds like you're a well-rounded man. I believe with time you'll find the right woman. Don't forget to keep in mind that usually girls in their early 20s are looking for a good party versus a stable relationship. Don't take it personally at all! You WILL find someone, so be it the circumstances fit :) Have hope!
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