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My 19 yr old sister is a greedy bum...
My oldest sister is 19...I keep writing about her because if I don't have anyone to hear my story, then I might harm myself...again. To make a long story short...my oldest sis is a trainwreck,a bum, embarassing,slow, and very confused. She once ran a red light and claimed she was thinkin about something else. Not to mention she doesn't even have a license. She even walks around the house with her boxers talking to random girls and acting like she just...has it ALL figured out. If only they knew what she was really like. Ok so my other sis who is 17 made me and my mom some nachos with ground beef. I was eating and my 19 yr old comes down and picks one piece of ground beef out to eat it. She knew it wasnt hers and she wasnt suppose to have a piece. I leave to go tell my mom and five minutes later the ground beef is pretty much gone, their is only small pieces left....I HATE my sister. When I say I do I really do. There is sooo much that she has done that I choos not to mention. If you all knew and could relate. This is only minor but she has been this way FOREVER. She is an oppertunist and only gives a fly---u know what...about herself. A very greedy person and we are constantly having to restock on groceries or suffer during the week because all the food is gone. One day her time will come and all the karma will come back on her for what she has done over the years. It includes her greed situation...and also all of her other stuff she has done. Lets just say this...um who video tapes kids on a carousel to try and call it art? And who video tapes dolls doing "things" and the dolls are the same gender..." who does that at 19???? yeah....I'd say a real TWISTED person. I mean yes children and kids may do that during their "discovery" ages but not with cams and being 19.....I'm so sick of her I can barely keep up. What do I do....can someone speak to me? Calm me down. Tell me something I wanna hear but tell the truth...??? I'm sorry for this long blog, but it had to be written.
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hello i think i know how you feel,you feel like your sister has no respect for you and she does just do what she feels like , is,t very else to get really mad at someone who do you wrong but over all she is till your sister i have a big sister and because she is older than me she feel like she can do me what she likes ,i will not say i hate her but sometimes i don,t like her but i learn how to forgive and u should to, ask the lord to help her change her greedy ways or try talking to her and letting her know how you feel about her . peace and love :)
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Talk to a school counselor. Get some, professional, individual help from an adult.
Obviously, you don't like your sister very much. We get it. She eats too much. She showers too loud. Her idea of 'art' sucks.
And none of what you've described in all your questions, not a scrap of it, it worth getting as worked up as you are.
It's not nice to live with someone you don't like. Someone who is rude. But you are only making it harder on yourself when you work yourself into a fit of hate over it.
Talk to a counselor or therapist. Your reactions here are out of control. You are going to make yourself sick. You need to find a better way to deal with your unhappiness.
It's okay to dislike your sister, but for your own sake, you need to get a handle on your reactions. This extreme name-calling and anger is going to hurt you more than anyone else. If you aren't getting support at home, turn to another adult in your life who can help you find some calm.
You need to chill the hell out. Not because your sister or mom are going to get any better, but because if you don't, you are going to get worse and worse, until you are exactly the kind of selfish, self-obsessed bully you are complaining about.
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