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how do i tell my mom I'm dating him?
me:13f
him:15m
So I've been dating this guy, let's call him "a'...so a is a druggie..but has recently been tryinf to stop, he is the sweetest guy I've ever met. My parents already know him...But they know him as a druggie...he has been changing though..I really like him, and hope my arents can acept him for who he is..butthey most likely won't..they will tell me that i cant date him, cuz my parents are very strict about the guys I date....I love him.. can someobe help me?? Please??
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I'd hold off dating this guys for a while. First, you need to see if he is a druggie and has provenly stopped. Just be mates for now, get to know him, and if he is clean make your move. If not, leave him well alone, because since your only 13 you could be putting yourself in danger.
If he is clean, ask him out and go out with him for a couple of weeks. If thing do go well, then you'll have to tell your parents. Sit them down and maybe even have him in the room too, so that they can't express how they feel and hurt you so much.
If they trust you, then they shoul be accepting. And I don't think you do 'love' him,I think you love the thought of being with him-but hey as time passess and you guys get together then you may really experience what loving him is like.
Also I'd suggest looking on the 'serach questions' link on here. There are alot of stories like this and it may be benificial to get other advice givers points of view too, so you're more clued up as to what to do.
Good luck hope all works out :)
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wow!your 13 and dating and he,s 15 and in drugs ? while lets see if i can help you understand the meaning of love ,love is an deep emotional feeling that can not be break ,you will do almost anything for that person ,you will give up your wrong doings to never put the one you love in danger , you will never what to hate that person ,so you say you love him ,but the question is does he loves you is he willing to give up being a druggie completely for you. love is something you can not just say ,you have to mean it fully with all your heart and i really do think you to young for love ,just trying to protect you peace and love :)
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When I was young I fell for a pixie, but my parents hated pixies for always winning the biggest strawberry patch annual fair. We broke off the other reasons than that. Anyway, (Damn, I promised I'd never say this) you are a bit young. This sounds really stupid, but your parents are just trying to protect you from him, and drugs. When yo're older, see if he's serious about quitting. You'll both change and be able to be together (hopefully)
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