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So Confused when it comes to females..and IM FEMALE!
So I'm a 20 year old female who recently got out of a year and a half relationship. All my relationships have always been with a male. I mean I've always had an interest in females started acting on it at 18 and now that I'm single again I've been talking to this girl my "potential" Girlfriend. Would be my first ever girlfriend. Anyways shes known as a "hot commodity" in the lesbian world alot of girls seem to just flock. Now I'm a sensitive girl I don't like getting my feelings hurt so I don't know if I should go for it... We've known eachother over a year met at school but started "talking and fooling around" a few weeks ago. Shes a good sweet talker and she def. has charm. She wants to earn my trust but its hard to when shes constantly on her phone talking to girls blatantly flirting with them over facebook. Then tells me I'm the only one she wants to talk to. Its just so confusing because I don't want this gut feeling of her being a player to be true even though she claims to feel the
same way. YIKES!
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The rule of life is, if your gut tells you something ain't right it ain't right. She totally sounds like a player, so you're better off finding someone who isn't.
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Always trust your gut instinct. It`s always right. This girl is not your type of person. She has a history of promiscuity and would likely think of you as just another fling or conquest.
If you are extremely sensitive and want a long-term relationship and someone to care that isn`t her deal. Her actions show that she`s a player who loves the attention and is flirting online and off with a variety of people.
The whole hot commodity that everyone is after thing spells bad news. Don`t fall for the act or the sweet talk. She`s after something purely physical. Unless that`s all you are looking for don`t get involved. Be a friend sure, but look for that person who is going to stick around as that sounds like all you want and she won`t be that. Once she gets bored she`ll be on to the next person.
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