I have alot of friends, who did talk behind my back a little, but always would confess and say sorry, but since this other girl came, she has stolen all my friends, now they all hate me! I don't want her her! I have NO friends and she tells them to never talk to me or they'll do something and never talk to them! It makes me mad!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? cherryhelp answered Saturday November 5 2011, 11:04 pm: hello you may feel very angry right now, but gods your friend and once you have god, you don,t need any one else ,you don,t have to study them if they don,t what to be your friend you must not show them that you care because friends like that are not to be called friends you will always find new friends and im sure that you was a very nice friend to all of them and will never do them that ,and you must not say you have no friends because you will always have 2, god and me :)and if you will ever like to talk visit me on facebook or twitter as lenica crawford peace and love:) [ cherryhelp's advice column | Ask cherryhelp A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Thursday October 27 2011, 10:14 am: You should get new friends!
Your "friends" sound like fair-weathered friends. They sound like they do anything to please themselves and they don't care if they hurt others while doing it. For people to act that way I'll never understand. I had a friend that I was really close to and she ended up hanging out with some girls that didn't care for me. I didn't have many friends either. It hurt me when she did this but I realized I didn't want to involve myself with her if she was going to hang out with people that didn't treat me right.
You need to stand up for yourself and get away from these girls!
Meet some new people who will actually be there for you! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday October 26 2011, 12:23 am: If your friends are gullible enough to believe what someone else says about you, Then your friends never really knew you that well to begin with. People who turn others against someone is not a true friend nor someone that others would really want to stick around and be friends with. Yes, Right now your friends are gullible but how much longer do you really think your friends are going to stick around with this person?...
Sure it pisses you off but you can't put all the blame on the new girl, Your friends should of known better than to believe everything someone says. In the meantime maybe you could try talking to one of your friends when you have a moment, If they have a facebook try sending them a message on how you feel. If they choose not to listen too you then they aren't real friends and it's never too late to make new ones. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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