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Question Posted Monday October 17 2011, 12:44 pm

My ex of 2 years decided he didnt want a relationship anymore, after everything weve been through. i dont really give a crap anymore, but curiousty is killing me because after all i LOVE karma.. now my question is, i typed in his name for the first time in a long time on the search bar on facebook, and turns out he blocked me, first off, id like to mention that i made a new account a while ago, and i never added him, he told my sisters boyfriend that he knows i dont have him on my new facebook, one thing lead to another, and my sisters boyfriend ended up making him feel like shit about doing what he did after he tried blaming everything on me, and got mad after they proved him wrong, all in all,my ex told me he doesnt have feelings for me anymore, this was before, and thats when i cut him off completely, now why would someone who hurt YOU, block you on facebook if you both werent even friends on facebook to begin with? correct me if im wrong, but is the guilt kicking in? or is this totally normal?
This is just all out of curiousity, thank you.


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xokristabelle answered Tuesday October 18 2011, 1:51 am:
Here's the real question- why do you care? You say you don't give a crap, but it doesn't sound like it.

It doesn't matter why the guy blocked you. He probably just doesn't wanna talk to you or have you 'stalking' his page. And hey, it's a good thing. It is pretty much impossible to get over someone if you have any form of contact with them. He's not doing anything weird or wrong, so move on and forget about it.

-Krista
20/f

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Razhie answered Monday October 17 2011, 9:51 pm:
It's normal to block people you don't want to talk too - ever.

If you don't give a crap, stop giving a crap about why he blocked you. You'll never know. Clearly he isn't interested in speaking to you and explaining the intimate details behind his choice.

You think he is nasty and delusional. It's understandable to be a bit disappointing that you can't do a bit of harmless FB stalking, but instead of worrying about this, count it as a stroke of luck for your mental health that you aren't able to.

The final step in being okay with a break up, is accepting that you can't know or control what the other person thinks or does.

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