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No calls since we had sex... :(
So I finally have a boyfriend, which I havn't had for about 2yrs now. Iv only had "friends with benefits"... and I think I might be a little overdramatic because he hardly talks to me. I get like 2 txtz a day and no calls since we had sex. Am I being weird? I mean he works but he doesn't work all day, I even txtd him and he told me he was with friends, I said well txt me when u have time 4 me, and nothing... :(
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You have every right to be a little pissed off i mean come on he uses you for sex and then just takes off sometimes remembering who you are and quickly writing a text so you won't start to worry about him blowing you off. Talk to him. you need to know if his being serious with you or if it was a one time thing i mean you shouldn't have to worry about this it's tiring and just plain annoying, i mean he is just a guy and you need to know that you are ten times better then him you have to power to ask him what he wants from you. because if he doesn't want anything even though it would be painful at least you can stop waiting around for someone who doesn't understand you and start looking for a guy who does.
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Have you talked to him face to face and told him how you felt? If this guy is your boyfriend you should be able to talk about anything. My belief is that if you truly care about something you wil go out of your way to call them for 5 mins out of your day. If it's making you this upset I would walk away. Why do you want someone treating you like that? You deserve someone who is going to make you feel good about yourself and someone who wants to hear how your day was. Don't settle for this guy...move on and say "NEXT".
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He's not interested
Sounds like the guy just got what he wanted out of you and that was that. If he doesn't contact you, He has either loss interested or he has someone else. Don't let him use you as a booty call because likewise that is why he is in contact when he is.
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