Question Posted Friday September 23 2011, 12:18 pm
18/f
I have a crush on this one kid and we flirt all the time but then sometimes he will act weird like he doesn't like me. I want to act hard to get but I don't know how. I'll be seeing him this weekend and I don't wanna fall into the trap of flirting with him and then him backing away. help please!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rumely answered Tuesday September 27 2011, 12:27 am: You're 18, time to stop playing games. The trouble with games is that they waste time and prolong the agony if things aren't going to work out. Maybe it's time to take a risk and let him know straight up how you feel about him and find out how he feels about you. This kind of directness and clarity make it so much easier to judge whether it's worth investing more time in this relationship and, if so, how to proceed. If he can't handle an honest approach or if he isn't interested in a romantic relationship with you, then you can stop wasting time with him and move on to others and find that special someone that much faster. [ Rumely's advice column | Ask Rumely A Question ]
askmariah10 answered Friday September 23 2011, 6:43 pm: When you see your crush be nice say hi and hold a convo with him for only 5 mins. maxium then say i'll be right back and go talk to your friends for a while.The key to playing hard to get is to still act like you like the person but to not be in their face all the time...give them space.:-) [ askmariah10's advice column | Ask askmariah10 A Question ]
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