i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i dont know what he will say.
Question Posted Saturday September 17 2011, 3:04 am
hi im ashlyn im 13 and im a girl. i want to have sex so bad because im going through a phase. but i want to ask my boyfriend if he will have sex with me but i dont know what he will say. so i need to know how to ask him if he will have sex with me.and i need to know where to have sex if he says yes
"safe sex is great sex, better wear a latex, cause you don't want that late text, that 'I think I'm late' text"
Be careful use protection, I guarantee he will say yes if you ask him to have sex with you. Just remember, one night of fun, can fuck up your whole life. USE PROTECTION!
adviceman49 answered Saturday September 17 2011, 9:32 am: Hi Ashlyn,
To start off with you are way, way to young to be having sex. You are barely a teenager and way immature for sex as your reasoning why suggests. Sex is not something you have because you are going through a phase.
Another reason for not having sex at you age is you do not want to get a reputation at school. I'll be honest with you about this; when it comes to having sex boys are unable to keep a secrete. If you have sex with your boy friend tonight it will be all over school before next week is finished. You will become the most popular girl in school for all the wrong reasons.
Once you get this type of reputation it is very hard to live it down. It will even follow you to a new school. I don't think this is what you want.
For that reason I am not going to answer your question. I'm going to ask you to rethink your reason for wanting to have sex at such an early age in your life. I can think of no reason you should be considering of even letting a boy get to first base let alone hitting a home run. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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