Question Posted Saturday September 10 2011, 5:57 am
hello, this question is actually for a guys. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and half. we love and care for each other. but sometimes when we quarrel or argue he becomes really really stubborn and he starts saying,' it worries me that we have not much in common'. what does he mean by we have not much in common? is he thinking about breaking up or what? he never says sorry but he does talk to me and comfort me afterwards. help guys. thanks.
annabanana answered Saturday September 10 2011, 9:53 am: Well guys or girls are in a relationship to get to know each other and you have to be thankful for this opportunity that you are learning a lot about him.
Would you wanna be with someone forever that "never says sorry?"Even if he comforts you and talks afterwards, these things shouldnt've happened in the first place.
How would you deal with his stubborness in the future?
By saying "it worries me", He wants it to work out between you two, but he is discovreing stuff about you that is gradually opening his eyes ...
you have to talk about these differences because there will really be, since you 2 are unique individuals) but you have to draw the line which are acceptable and which are not...issues that would affect your future as a couple and as parents perhaps...good luck! enjoy the adventure! [ annabanana's advice column | Ask annabanana A Question ]
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