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Moving on.
Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up, reasons dont matter but i have a question
i blocked him off my sisters facebooks, and i deactivated mine because i didnt want to look childish and delete him or block him, im moving on with my life and im feeling happier, i still love him but im trying to get over that because i dont think its ever gonna workout, my question is.. now hes adding all these girls on facebook and slightly flirting, and i feel like the only way i will ever get over him if it hurts to see stuff on facebook, what do you guys think? maybe im wrong because im curious to wanna go on his stuff.. will it just hurt me more? the curiousty is killing me.. so what should i do? thanks.
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my personal opion was that you might have went allittle "overboard" as blocking his fb from ur sisters. it wouldnt be right or fair to them, and even if you broke up, there is no reason you cant be freinds still.
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Im in a very similar situation to you right now..If you want your facebook back you can simply block him from your news feed because next time he comments something click on the x in the right hand side and click hide all posts from ...
I also think its really childish to delete your ex and its not a bad thing if you do...cause it does make it easier but in a way it shows that you arent ok. Seems like your ex is being a huge tool by flirting on facebook and everything. I honestly dont look at my ex's facebook anymore because i figure that theres nothing there that will benefit me. You need to move on by not going on his facebook because that seems to be his way of dealing with his pain..
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The only way to truly get over someone is to have a clean break. That means no contact, no snooping, and try to dodge the curiosity. Jealousy or curiosity on what he is doing is so normal, though. I dated a guy for 3 years, am married to another guy now, and often wonder if my ex has 'moved on' so to speak. I'd be a little miffed to hear if he had a new girlfriend, to be honest.
You're only going to torture yourself if you continue to read his FB and see his communication with other girls. Deactivating your FB was a good move - stay off the social networking sites and go out and have fun!
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