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crush at work
There's this guy at work and we have insaane chemistry.. lustful and sexual. We have joked around a lot about sex and stuff. He doesn't know that I like him. I'm not sure if he likes me but I'm scared I will be rejected. How do I hint to him that I want to be with him? After all is said and done I don't want it to be weird because we work together..
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I agree with what Zane said. If things don't work out, it could get super awkward for you around the office, ha.
I'm guessing by the way the two of you communicate that he already knows you like him. To solidify this, you could simply tell him.
After he makes you laugh, you could say "You're so funny. We really should hang out more." and see what he says to that.
I DO think you should act professionally at work, though. No sense in getting fired over some guy.
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You probably don't want to hear it but dating a coworker is a very bad idea. Coworkers should strictly be work relationship only, Depending on the company some places have a no dating policy and if you were to get caught it could cost you your job. You are there to work, Not meet people and date. Flirting and telling each other sexual jokes on the job is very inappropriate.
If you like him, Fine. Nobody can stop you from dating someone. However, I recommend whatever you do to keep it out of the company. When you work you act professional, Take the job seriously etc. Outside of work you are generally free to do whatever you wish. Flirting and telling sexual jokes, I'm pretty sure this guy has picked up that you like him. From now on though, I'd keep it low key and stop flirting so much in a business. Neither would your boss or customers would be really comfortable to find their employers joking around and not taking the job seriously. If you want to talk to him, Wait until your shift is over and the appropriate time.
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