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Privacy with my boyfriend.
I 14 and about to turn 15 in a few months.My boyfriend comes over alot, and him and my mom have talk and alll that. But whenever he comes over we have to sit in the living room. But some times i want us to a little privacy.I havent said antthing to my mom about. Do you think we should be able to have privacy?
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your parents just want to make sure you don't have
intercourse.because their also considering your age.
if you had just met him then of course they're going to be concerned.ask them if you can.if they say no then try asking why.if it comes down to the reason of intercourse. then try giving your word that you won't. and let your boyfriend understand. hope this helped.
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Your 14 and he's 15 and what you really want is some alone time to make out. What is the rush to grow up. You have plenty of time for make out sessions and sex. The world is not coming to an end in 2012.
I've got news for you; what Zane said about living in mom's house and living by her rules remains in effect if you are 14, 18 or 21. There is a double standard for children. Girls will always be treated differently then boys. Fathers will always think of their daughters as their little girl and will never get use to the idea that some guy will some day be invading their daughters body through sex, even after marriage. That is just the way things are and something you will have to learn to live with until you leave home.
Even after moving out of your parents home you can expect to be questioned on your choice of roommates if you are not married. Then and only then can you say; my home my rules. Until then it is mom's house, mom's rules.
Short answer to your question: No your to young to be left alone with a boy.
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At your age, no. I don't think you should have privacy. These days, girls are starting to have sex younger and younger and even though you haven't said anything about sex, that's mainly the reason why a girl and boy want to have 'alone time'. You're too young. Spend time getting to know your guy! If you want a little privacy, try talking a walk together or hang out in your back yard and talk privately.
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What you seem to be missing is you are in your mothers house.
As long as you live with your parents you will have to live by their rules. Your mother has the both of you on the couch for a reason, She wants to keep you both out of trouble. Do I think you should have your privacy? eh, It's her house and she has the right to make her rules. Once you turn 18, You can do whatever you wish.
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