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I really like him...and he wants me to make the first move...


Question Posted Friday September 2 2011, 9:02 am

Having a lack of confidence always makes me shy about certain things. Especially making the first move... I have liked my friend for a while. He is a senior, I am a junior. We flirt a lot but I know he wants to wait a bit before we make us official. I like him a lot... And he wants me to kiss him. I feel sooo dumb! I have kissed plenty of guys but I have never really made the first move for a first kiss. I feel so shy and then at times I just wanna pull him close and kiss him but I am afraid I will be a bad kisser or something. I dunno. I feel like I haven't kissed anyone in years! I really want to but I am just so damn scared! I want to conquer my fear. Any advice?

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WittyUsernameHere answered Saturday September 3 2011, 8:33 am:
Actually the 1,2,3 kiss him from below isn't a bad idea. You're thinking about it too much and psyching yourself out. Go for thinking less, just meet up with him thinking "I'm going to kiss him!" over and over in your head and do it as soon as you get the chance. Let the chips fall where they may afterwards.

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Jacharity answered Friday September 2 2011, 11:52 am:
OH! Just say 1, 2, 3! and than kiss him quickly and walk away like it never happened. No I'm kidding.

I understand that feeling because I'm shy too. My advice for you is to get in a quiet place with little or no people for like a study date or something.(Examples: Study Date; Walk in the park; pinic; riding your bikes; etc.) Than afterwards when you guys are taking a break and/or having a good time that's your crew. Take a deep breathe, lean in and kiss him. Good Luck!

♥Jacharity♥

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