I really like him...and he wants me to make the first move...
Question Posted Friday September 2 2011, 9:02 am
Having a lack of confidence always makes me shy about certain things. Especially making the first move... I have liked my friend for a while. He is a senior, I am a junior. We flirt a lot but I know he wants to wait a bit before we make us official. I like him a lot... And he wants me to kiss him. I feel sooo dumb! I have kissed plenty of guys but I have never really made the first move for a first kiss. I feel so shy and then at times I just wanna pull him close and kiss him but I am afraid I will be a bad kisser or something. I dunno. I feel like I haven't kissed anyone in years! I really want to but I am just so damn scared! I want to conquer my fear. Any advice?
Jacharity answered Friday September 2 2011, 11:52 am: OH! Just say 1, 2, 3! and than kiss him quickly and walk away like it never happened. No I'm kidding.
I understand that feeling because I'm shy too. My advice for you is to get in a quiet place with little or no people for like a study date or something.(Examples: Study Date; Walk in the park; pinic; riding your bikes; etc.) Than afterwards when you guys are taking a break and/or having a good time that's your crew. Take a deep breathe, lean in and kiss him. Good Luck!
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