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rape victims


Question Posted Saturday August 27 2011, 7:55 am

Um hello i'm 13 and normally hang out with the older kids.Well one day i was at my friends house and me and him were playing video games.he is 16.he looked at me and said you have pretty eyes so we started to kiss.He kept trying to unbutton my pants i tell him stop, he keeps trying.i push away and i say i'm leaving he grabs me and throws me on his bed.he goes on top of me and he takes off my shirt and pants i say stop.he just told me shutup and that day he took away my virginity whether i liked or not.he raped me.i don't talk to him,but sometimes he comes to my house and makes me have sex with him if my parents aren't home.please help me he keeps using my body.i can't stop thinking about what he does to me.i really need help.


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nameless_need_help answered Monday August 29 2011, 10:25 pm:
You have to go to someone you trust and tell them right now. If you dont..it could go way to far. You write down everything you can remember and have it ready to give to the police when you call them with that person you trust. Tell no Force your parents to let you not be alone. DON'T BE ALONE. Especially after you call the police. Do NOT tell anyone other than that trusted person that you are calling the police. It could be dangeous for you if he finds out. Please call the police and please do not be alone. Good Luck

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annabanana answered Saturday August 27 2011, 11:40 pm:
GRAB YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW AND YOU ALL GO TO THE POLICE AND REPORT EVERYTHING!!!! NOW!!!
DO NOT LET THIS DRAG!!
HE IS WRONG!!! HE RAPED YOU!!! DUH!?!
YOU ARE SO YOUNG!!! HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THAT AND FORCED YOU TO DO THINGS YOU DONT LIKE!YOU ARE NATURALLY CONFUSED BUT THATS IT- GO GET HELP!!
DO NOT WORRY! HE WILL BE PUT TO HIS PROPER PLACE!
DO NOT LET ANYONE FORCE YOU TO DO ANYTHING YOU DONT LIKE!!!
GET TO THE POLICE AND THE HOSPITAL TOO (God knows what diseases this disgusting guy has that is now in you!) SO PLEASE GO NOW!!!
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR, STOP THE INTERNET AND GO GET HELP!!!
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.... HE SHOULD HAVE RESPECT FOR GIRLS!! GO GO GO!!!

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DearAbby92 answered Saturday August 27 2011, 3:07 pm:
You need to get help! Not from someone online.

You need to tell your parents, or a responsible adult in your life. You are being hurt and abused, and it is ILLEGAL! Don't stand for it!


You shouldn't be afraid to tell your parents, because once the word gets out and you report this guy, he can't hurt you anymore.

This website can help you. You can call someone here, or just look at resources to help you open up and tell someone about it.
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I urge you to stop this now. If you let it go any further, he will continue to hurt you. He may even try to physically hurt or even kill you. His behavior proves he is not mentally right in the head and you can't predict his behavior.

Please get out of this. Help yourself.

Good luck,

-Abby

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