I want to have sex with my boyfriend but I don't want to get pregnant he won't get a condom and I can't get one for him but I really want to do it with him and I can't get on birth control because I don't want my mom to know. So if we just had sex for like 20 seconds could I still get pregnant? If i can is there an amount of time that I can do it and not get pregnant?
adviceman49 answered Wednesday August 24 2011, 10:08 am: Tell your boyfriend if the glove doesn't fit neither does he. Anytime you have penis to vagina sex without a condom, spermicide, or other form of birth control you run the risk of pregnancy at just about 100% chance.
There are other reasons for being on birth control such as regulating your period. You might talk to your doctor about this. You don't say how old you are but if you have begun having your periods and have not had your first gynecological check up you need to schedule one soon and yearly there after.
By law you can have these visits in complete privacy and confidential if over 14 years of age, meaning mom can not attend them with you while you are being attended to by the doctor. The doctor by law cannot discuss anything that happened in the exam room with your parent(s) without your written consent.
If the doctor feels you should be on birth control or you ask the doctor for birth control pills a prescription will be written. You can then fill it at the pharmacy as you normally do. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Xui answered Wednesday August 24 2011, 12:49 am: Then you tell your boyfriend: No glove, No love
There is always a chance of pregnancy. There is no such thing as a certain amount of time. I highly suggest you talk him into using a condom because it's better to be safe then to regret it and it would be the SMART thing to do. Don't be stupid! [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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