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i never liked my emo classmates


Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 8:24 am

never liked my emo classmates...they're dark and creepy and stiff. i never understand why'd they have to be like that,they always looked sad and unhappy...almost all the time and gives a really creepy look at me. and i have to deal with it every time i go to school.and whenever i try to talk to them? they never talk to me.i can't puzzle them, it's very weird and not easy to understand. takes away all the happy energy and happy thoughts that i have.how i wish they could just fuck off my life.any advice?

note: all of them are emo, or almost.
18 year old guy, college and asian


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Xui answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 10:42 am:
Try and understand from their point of views is probably the only way to somewhat understand.


Emo people tend to be self expressive, They show how they feel by the way they dress. Sometimes it's not the most attractive look or way but in today's society it's mostly about the emo/goths.

Have you ever tried to talk to them? You may actually be surprised that not all of them are creepy and dark. Sometimes they just appear to be, You may find some of these people to actually be pretty cool folks. Remember that old saying "Looks can be deceiving"

Well, It's been a long time since I were in HS but I'll tell ya what way back in the day I was a goth. I wore anything from skulls, chained baggy pants, sweatshirts on top of having pretty much anything pierced. You name it, I did it. Now I may of appeared to be creepy and dark but if you had tried to speak to me, I was a pretty down to earth person and very laid back. How I dressed did not define my identity. Try talking to one of them, You may be surprised in what you find.

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