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would you say you have a good relationship with your mom?
do you have a good relationship with your mom. what are some things you guys do together. how does she treat you? explain.
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My mother and I have no relationship what so ever. We have not done anything together since I was about 14 when she insisted I helped her with animal fundraising but she never did anything for my enjoyment.
Before I left home she complained about me being in too much, but then complained I was out too much.
She complained if I tried to have a conversation with her but then would tell everyone her daughter doesn't speak to her.
When I asked her why she said I could only speak to her at certain times during the day but everyone else got her full attention whenever they wanted such as the second my stepfather came through the door, she'd ask how work was and so on. When I was working she never asked me this as my shifts mostly ended after 11pm, however on a sunday they finished at 9:30pm but even then she told me that she wanted me 'out of the way because it was late' like I was a five year old kid.
My mum hasn't spoken to me since April, I stood up to her and left home for a while and fell in love with someone she hasn't met but does not approve of. She has always been impossible to please and get on with and I used to think it was me, however me and my stepmother are good friends and my boyfriend has told me that his mum thinks I am the best thing that has ever happened to him.
In conculsion I am ashamed to say my relationship with my mother is non-existant.
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It's interesting, the mother/child dynamics. I feel like since I moved out and have been many many miles away from my mom, our relationship has improved. For instance now we write emails almost every day, whereas before we were with each other every day, but we argued a lot and many times we would just ignore each other because we were fed up from being with each other every moment of the day. When we do visit each other, though, we go shopping, talk, etc.
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I think I have a very good relationship with my Mother! I think we've became closer once I became a Mother, myself. We do a lot of things together with my Boys. We go out for suppers and shopping. Sometimes we just have a hangout day at my house or hers. :o)
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