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I feel like no guy will want me while I am friends with this pretty girl.
14/f(i turn 15 in September)
So...im just gna jump right to it! My friends always say im relli pretti, but i feel like im a ugly monster! Im blonde with brown/dark green eyes and i have a slightly tanned skin. Im short(i dont know how tall i am because its too depressing to measure myself)
And i weigh about 143 pounds(65 kg)...I hate how i look!!! Ive had more then a few relationships but none of them lasted very long, back then(about 3 years ago)i wasnt skinny but i wasnt fat either.
Sine ive gone to high school(im in the 9th grade)i haven't had even one relationship.
Plus, my friend is really skinny and pretty, and i feel like i will never be good enough for any guy, while im friends with her...I love her very much and she is like my second sister....I dont know what to do!? please help me <3
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I know with all you hear about how you have to look good but trust me its soooo much better to be kind and be yourself. When it comes down to a real relationship your inner beauty is what will count. Another thing is you need to learn to love everything about you...yes everything!! Guys notice when you have confidence and tha your happy with yourself. I know its hard but you CAN do it if you really try. When you find someone that is special to you they'll see your inner beauity and only see how gorgeous you are so don't worry. If they don't like you the way YOU are they aren't worth your time whatsoever. I had trouble with the same thing so trust me it works. Always remember YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! Even if you have to say that to yourself in the mirror everyday then do it!. Try to remind yourself of what you like about yourself physically and personality wise too. Don't let anyone put you down just because they have problems themselves and take it out on you!!! And remember looks don't last anyway lol but true inner beauty will last forever and that's what counts!! Guys will think your hot if they see how great a person you are!!
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At your age, relationships won't last long. So don't worry about dating. Don't worry about your looks. If her friendship is that important to you, forget about dating. "Guys come and go, but friends are forever." Is a saying my late friend told me while we were in high school. Don't ruin a friendship just because you want to date a specific guy. I mean, really... Think about it.
You finally got a boyfriend, he's great... at first. But in order to get said boyfriend, you completely abandoned your best friend. Then later, he becomes a (pardon my language) worthless prick who treats you poorly. You leave him or he leaves you.. Then you're pretty much stuck. You lost your boyfriend, and you no longer have your friend because you ditched out on her to date said male.
Is abandoning your friend to get that one boyfriend who will probably only last at most 3 years, really worth it? Sorry to put this bluntly, but if dating is more important than friendship, you have a sad future ahead of you.
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You think to little of yourself
I hate to tell you, Looks are not everything in a relationship. You will eventually realize when you get older. I personally look for a great personality, I could care less what someone looked like.
Let me explain something: Would a guy want to date someone who looks like a super model when her personality sucked? No.....I wouldn't think so.
A guy would want to be with someone who is a good person and is not afraid to be themselves. That is what it's all about. You are insecure but at the same time sweetheart you are only 14 years old.
Everything seems to be about looks right now, Who cares what your friend looks like. Be happy to be who you are and as much as you may think she is real pretty nobody is perfect.
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