Member Since: August 12, 2011
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Last Update: August 12, 2011
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14/f(i turn 15 in September)
So...im just gna jump right to it! My friends always say im relli pretti, but i feel like im a ugly monster! Im blonde with brown/dark green eyes and i have a slightly tanned skin. Im short(i dont know how tall i am because its too depressing to measure myself)
And i weigh about 143 pounds(65 kg)...I hate how i look!!! Ive had more then a few relationships but none of them lasted very long, back then(about 3 years ago)i wasnt skinny but i wasnt fat either.
Sine ive gone to high school(im in the 9th grade)i haven't had even one relationship.
Plus, my friend is really skinny and pretty, and i feel like i will never be good enough for any guy, while im friends with her...I love her very much and she is like my second sister....I dont know what to do!? please help me (link)
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I know with all you hear about how you have to look good but trust me its soooo much better to be kind and be yourself. When it comes down to a real relationship your inner beauty is what will count. Another thing is you need to learn to love everything about you...yes everything!! Guys notice when you have confidence and tha your happy with yourself. I know its hard but you CAN do it if you really try. When you find someone that is special to you they'll see your inner beauity and only see how gorgeous you are so don't worry. If they don't like you the way YOU are they aren't worth your time whatsoever. I had trouble with the same thing so trust me it works. Always remember YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! Even if you have to say that to yourself in the mirror everyday then do it!. Try to remind yourself of what you like about yourself physically and personality wise too. Don't let anyone put you down just because they have problems themselves and take it out on you!!! And remember looks don't last anyway lol but true inner beauty will last forever and that's what counts!! Guys will think your hot if they see how great a person you are!!
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Hi I'm 15 f and the guy I still think about just turned 17 He went to my highschool for half a year than left but the summer before we just flirted all the time never did anything just constant flirt which made me fall for him.. But then randomly he stopped talking to me I had to make the convo which I got tired of. I tried to force myself to get over him which I did bc I liked this other guy for about 2 weeks. But he after a year I still think about him when I know he's flirting with other girls and I've heard terrible stories that he did with girls which makes me not like him but after I just forget about them and think about him I think I still like him does it seem like it? Idk what to do.. Im tired of it I want to do something (link)
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The first thing you need to know is your definalty not the only one. I've been through many relationships, and I understand in what I've experienced how hard it is. I still think about a lot of my exs but I've learned over the years that 1) it takes twice as long as you were associated with him to get over him 2) The right man will make you feel better than any other guy ever could 3) its ok to still think about him or care because you cared about him before 4) learn to love all of yourself because if you can't do that you can't really take care of someone else and your still very young there's plenty guys out there and one is your soulmate there will be ups and downs as you know but keep your head held up high because your worth it. It'll be ok. Learn from you past cherish the good times and work hard for your future it'll pay off. In the end its right. For what its worth it was worth all the while.
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