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I can't get him out of my head


Question Posted Monday August 8 2011, 7:53 pm

me nd this guy kissed de first day we met,,talked on de fone 24/7 afta dat,,realli liked each other,,hav loads in common..he lives far from me but we agreed it wont be a problem and he's going to 2nd year in university while am a graduate,,but he didnt mind and i was cool with dat. we met 2nd time kissed in cinema,,3rd time again in same week kissed.,i sucked his dick and he sucked ma breast but no sex., we agreed we be freinds but because we both haven't been in a relationship for de past 2 years we couldnt control out hormones...then we got so close..i hanged up on him as a joke but i said sorry,,,then he called me back afta 3days saying he tinks we are rushing and we should jus be freinds and ever since then we hardly talk..i text him sometimes and he calls me at random times(midnite, afternoon). i tink he misses me but doesnt want to admit it and me too am trying to act mature, ignore him and move on,,but i cant get him out of ma head everyday HELP.,eventhough we didnt go out i still felt hurt by his suddn change and i was hoping we would go out as we were getin close..plzzz HELP with any advice i realii need it asap..thanks

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Advicelady6798 answered Tuesday August 9 2011, 10:08 am:
This is the "pull away" act guys often do when they find someone they really like. They find themselves getting too serious and falling for the person. Hes afraid of the idea of a relationship or the idea of getting serious. In the beginning it was all fun, fresh, and games but after some time, you really started to fall for each other. I would advise not giving up on him. If you can't get him out of your head, then that means you do not want to move on from him. Believe me when I say, when it is the hardest to forget someone, it means you weren't meant to. I would be completely honest with him, ask him the next time you talk to him, do you want to talk to me or do you want me to leave you alone forever. If he is given an ultimatum, he will choose quickly. I have a feeling he will admit that he doesn't want to lose you.

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