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Why am I pushing him away, when he's everything I could want
21/f Tony -18
So I've known Tony for a long time, but we never stayed close. Fourth of July week we were at the same cabin. We got really close and we started both developing feelings for each other.
The thing is, that he's not my type. He's a country boy and I usually go for the athletic jock types, the ones who are jerks. I think Tony's cute, but it's not like I'm like OMG he's the hottest I'm so lucky! I know it's not all about looks but I just feel like I could do better sometimes :\ not to sound conceited AT ALL.
I don't know what to do! He treats me like a princess tho, he would seriously do anything for me. He opens my car door when I'm leaving, he tells me how beautiful I am every day. He doesn't try to hook up with me because he knows that's not what I want and I'm not like that. I could honestly go on and on about everything he does for me. We're not officially dating yet, we're just "talking" if that's what you want to call it. I'm still a little torn. I'm so comfortable with him. I can even hang out with him when I just get out of the shower and he still reassures me that he thinks i'm beautiful. I need a guy like that. I think me not being that attracted to him and also his age is holding me back.
What should I do! Should I go for it? Should I not? Maybe i'm pushing him away because no guy has ever treated me so good before. I don't know!
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The new experience of finally meeting a nice guy is definitely scary and feels weird at the same time. You find yourself wondering if this is to good to be true or if you even could get something so perfect. You go for guys who are jocks and jerks because it was always what you have done. Have you ever seen the movie I Love You Beth Cooper? You have these two people who are complete opposites and yet in the end, they were absolutely perfect for one another. You have the pretty cheerleader how I might add is absolutely nuts and a nerd who is a complete sweetheart. In the end she chose him because he was sweet, nice, and treated you right. You may not be attracted to him right now, but you are drawn to his personality. I think you should give it a shot with him. Once you start dating, you will find yourself falling in love with him, and the attraction will only increase from there. You want a relationship that means something before it gets physical. This is the path to finding what you truly dreamt about or wanted all along.
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