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Fingering and now I ache and have a fever :(
I was fingered for the first time four days ago. My boyfriend was being rough and so the next day it hurt. Right now I am still having slight aches on and off on my lower abdomin. There is a chance he had precum left on his finger and I know there is a very slight chance of pregnancy but part of me is still concerned. Could I be pregnant? The only other symptom I have is a bit of fever. How many days is normal for your abdomin to ache after your first time? I am 19. Thanks in advance.
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From what you described you are definately NOT pregnant. However, if your boyfriend had any type of bacteria on his fingers and was fingering you very hard to the point of irritation it is very possible that he gave you an infection which would make since as to why you have a fever. The fever is the body's way of fighting off infections. More than three days of pain is unusual after simply being fingured but if you indeed have an infection that could explain the ongoing pain and fever. If it doesn't clear up within 5 days I would go see your regular doctor if you are uncomfortable seeing a gynocologist although that would be the best route to take. Your doctor can prescribe you an antibiotic that will clear any and everything right up. Good luck and tell your boyfriend to stop being so rough. How would he like a hand job so hard that his stuff hurt for several days? ouch!
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You aren't pregnant, and if you were you wouldn't be having symptoms this soon after sexual intercourse.
The fingering has nothing to do with your fever, and your vagina might be sore but fingering probably didn't cause aches in the abdomen.
Give it a few days and I'm sure you will feel better.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Are you about ready for your period? sometimes those aches occur before hand, especially if there's been some sexual activity, normally I don't get any aches unless I have been doing anything the week before, otherwise it is probably just coincidental that you have developed an illness (probably from your boyfriend if he had been complaining of feeling unwell before hand). as for pregnancy, from what you said I don't believe there was any full on intercourse so I would cross off the fear, it isn't impossible but it is extremely unlikely, especially if you are on any contraceptive like the pill.
If you are worried, you could buy a pregnancy test but if you are on the pill there is a risk of being a false-positive since it works by tricking the body to believe it is pregnant.
Good luck and I hope you get well soon :) x
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