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I havve a friend who cut me out of his life for a girl who hated him.
I'm 13 and I'm a female.I have a 17 year old emo friend named Connor.We used to talk everyday.I knew everything about him,even stuff his parents didn't know,because he told me.We were bestfriends.But then he suddenly stopped talking to me.I found out that the day he stopped talking to me,he got a girlfriend.Before that when we talked,he was single.I really like him.I'm tempted to tell him my feelings,and then tell him to never talk to me again.Only because I was there for him,and she was his friend before,but was never there for him.So he chooses her over his bestfriend to care about..Should I do that?And why did he do that to me?
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“It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.”
Tell him how you feel, otherwise you might regret being a coward and being too scared to say something. I'd rather be labeled a courageous risk taker, than a scared coward living in fear.
I don't think this guy knows what he's got.. He obviously doesn't appreciate you, which is wrong. I dont think he's a true friend. True friends stay together no matter what. And if he suddenly stops talking to his best friend because he found another girl, well that just shows immaturity and lack of respect for you. You should tell him how you feel and then stop talking to him. Get your feelings out of your system and force him to make a move. The ball is in your court right now. you have to make a move. Once you tell him how you feel, the ball is in his court and he has to do something about it.
Best option- just move on. He might regret this and then will come crawling back to you trying to get you to forgive him.
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If he were a true friend he wouldn't of ditched you for someone else. Friends are there for each other no matter what and he decided some girl was more important then your friendship. - This could be a possibility-
It could also be that Connor felt he did not need to inform you on his personal life. Sure, You both are best friends and know a lot about one another but sometimes people just need things that they keep to themselves. This doesn't mean that Connor wasn't going to tell you about it but perhaps he felt the need to keep it low until was sure about the situation.
If he completely ditched you to the point where you both are out of contact and not talking anymore well then that would be his loss. It would be completely pointless to tell him how you feel if he didn't value your friendship. Sometimes people change, Time changes....It's the way it goes. If you really want to know what is up with him then you can approach him but don't be all bitchy about it either.
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