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My friends talking behind my back.
I trust my friends soo much and when two of us got in a fight she told the other one everything i was saying and they messaged eachother back in forth.... Talking about me and saying how they were better friends..... and how i just have to except the fact that them to are better friends then ill ever be with them. And i trusted one with my heart and we told eachother we would never talk behind eachothers backs and she betrayed me, i dont know how to confront them about it because i kinda read there messages to eachother on facebook without permission so how are they gunna know how i figured out?
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hmm.. i'm thinking that these "friends" of yours aren't worth your time. I used to have friends like these.. boy it sucked. That was a few years ago and now that I look back on it, I feel like I wasted my time with those losers.
I think you need to be honest with them about how you found out. Just tell them you saw their facebook messages and then say "i'm a better person than both of you put together. want to know why? because unlike you guys, I don't lie and I'm loyal to my friends. you guys can eat shit together" ahaha and then laugh at their face.
sorry that could be a little mean.. but honestly they deserve it. I don't know what your personality type is.. but whenever someone treats me like that, I get PISSED and will prove to those people they are nothing but scum. So if you're a little shy girl, you need to toughen up your attitude and shove your finger in their face and say they are worthless little girls because they backstabbed you and talked behind your back. No true friend would ever do that. And then you can agree with them that they are better friends together because both of them are backstabbers and they go well together.
But seriously, you need to be the better person. Tell them the truth, toughen up and show them you're a way better person, and then walk away with your head up high and with your pride and dignity. You can find MUCH better friends than these pathetic little sissys. Trust me, I thought I would never find another best friend after my horrible friends, but if you just stay true to yourself and don't let other people drag you down, then you'll find the right people to hang out with.
Most importantly.. don't let these bitches get to you and make you feel worse. You are a much better person than they'll EVER be. Just walk away with pride of who you are, and leave them in the dust to rot.
Good luck and show them who's boss. Leave a message in my inbox and let me know how it went, or if you need any more help :) I know a ton about standing up for yourself.
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